Love is.....

Let me begin my blog with a subject that we all can relate, which is Love....
Love….a four-letter word that has infinite definitions, unfortunately, nobody can perfectly Define. The meaning of the word is perhaps equally ambiguous for contemporary persons. We often use the term to describe our fondness for a certain thingamajig. Also, in identifying or associating love w/ positive feelings & warm emotions.

Love linked solely to fondness or like for someone or something, surrounds the term w/ a certain self-centeredness, or selfishness. Love limited to good feelings rules out both stability as well as it's persistence in tough times…..

…1 Corinthians 13:4-7

Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not keep records of wrong; it does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things

This is the kind of love that is self-giving, the "MUST" or should I say fundamental and innate vocation of very human being. We cannot live w/o it we are senseless unless we encounter this love…

Life is unfair….."Love , one of the best things in life that is free"……bt then again, it seems this saying should be rephrased,and shld have add…."but somehow, u don't have a choice to decide what is right and you cant fight for it". What if the one you love has been accused, GuiLty as charged w/o even airing her side. Funny thing is, u weren't able to fight for her, bcoz ur parents said u cant love her bcoz she is a sinner and have so many flaws in life……. Ouch!! That my friends really hurt!…..Fine, we commit mistake. Who doesn't? if there's any pure soul who will tel me straight into my eyes that you don't sin nor make mistakes well…. For me you're as good as GOD! Very conceited on your part….shame on you…. Let me jz tel u dt sins, even if they say have different kinds, whether immoral or not, it's the very same in God's eyes. Iv been a Christian for several years now, and I think accepting God is the best decision ive made... I've been struggling through an awful period of emotional turmoil and spiritual depression---- "a long dark night of the soul" often called 'mid-life crisis'….. I felt I needed more than words from the bible. I needed God Himself to touch me….. People nowadays, forget God in their lives….what is important to them are the material things in this world which is a very disgusting deed on us…..though yes, its practical to decide and choose the way of the world…… I pity those people who honor life as they want it to be bcoz of wealth….all they know is, money makes the world go round….. true, it is. but the fact that u sacrificed everything especially your happiness which is suppose to be free, you just trade it for the money itself just to sacrifice again this painstaking wonder of love of your private life just for your family's will for them to be satisfied by you….. If you love....u must do it unconditionally.......

It may be difficult to comprehend why certain people are loved??? But some intercepts in the way…….