Is there a measurement for Love? Share

What if, someone will ask you....How much do you love me?....how do you answer this question? Honestly, it's not that easy...We like to measure everything. How do you measure love? Yes, we can measure love. We often we say 'he does not love me' or, 'loves me more than anyone else'. We do that depending on our response to certain expectations. It does not matter what the other person meant but what we felt is how love is measured.

Real love is Giving

We can express love in giving only. Sentiments and words can mean very little. However, actions speak not just louder than words but that is the only language love speaks. Only actions can prove the extent of love.

How do we measure the love of a mother, father, brother, sister, friends or a spouse?

Have you ever given it a thought? The love of a true mother from the time you are an infant to the time either she dies or you die never wavers, it is always sacrificing.

Love does not mean anything when you say I love you

They are empty words. When you pack it with action, it talks and you can measure. When you say, 'I will clean, wash and cook this week' to your wife, it is love in action. When the wife says, 'I have made your favorite roast beef today' it is love in action.

Nature of love is to help

Flowers and cards have sentimental value only. Only actions can mean love. The nature of love is to help another person. Any help from some one is a gesture of love.

Compassion mercy or kindness will trigger love. Nevertheless, they all stem from the character of love.

Love gets into action when it sees a need. It does not ask what is in it for me. That is what greed does. Many christian websites and ministries will fall into this category.

Love is a verb in action

Love is not a noun. Feeling, thinking, crying, or laughing cannot express love. Action alone can express love. Jesus asked Peter, 'Do you love me?' Then he said, 'Feed my sheep'.

Jesus also said if you love me, you would do what I say. Do is the key word here. Do is not feelings or writing a love poem. Do is action. Faith without works is dead. I do you say you love me when you do not things I tell you to do. Do Christian websites and ministries love you?
Love always sacrifices

Therefore, God's love is immeasurable because he has done so much we cannot measure all that he has accomplished for us in living us. Love in action is what God's character and being is.

Remember love always sacrifices. Without pain or sacrifice, there is absolutely no love in action. Love cannot be measured without actions. Faith without works is dead, so is love without actions.

The measure of love is when you love with out measure. in life there are very rare chances that you'll meet the person you love and love you in return. so when you have it now never ever let it go, the chance might never come your way back again....
Love them without measure. Love them to LIFE...

what are the components of Love?

The three hardest tasks in the world are neither physical feats nor intellectual achievements, but moral acts: 1) To return love for hate; 2) To include the excluded; and 3) To say 'I was wrong....


In a relationship, there are common components that we should be awaRe of:

1. Trust – this the most important in a relationship near or far from each other – trust should be always keep for a relationship to work out.
-Trust is both and emotional and logical act. Emotionally, it is where you expose your vulnerabilities to people, but believing they will not take advantage of your openness. Logically, it is where you have assessed the probabilities of gain and loss, calculating expected utility based on hard performance data, and concluded that the person in question will behave in a predictable manner. In practice, trust is a bit of both. I trust you because I have experienced your trustworthiness and because I have faith in human nature.
-So learn about trust, how it works and how to build it.

2. Honesty – being honest for each other is one way and best ingredients too. Our trust is basically part of being honest.

3. Responsibility – you should know your responsibility for each other.Whatever happens, take responsibility and be responsible!

4. Compliments – one components is make an effort to compliment to each other even in a very small and simple way....nice things said about someone.

5.Loyalty -is so vital for a man because he has experienced. loyalty is so crucial to a man because he learned from a deeper consciousness....There is much more to love than loyalty. But there is no love without loyalty. The actions of consistent loyalty in acting for the good of others, often involvng one's own pain, is a kind of masculine love that needs to be honored. It is not flowery. It involves more action that emotion. In fact, the action often needs a focus that precludes much emotion. Loyalty is a connection between human beings that creates community.

So these are some of it, well I am not perfect , nobody does but 100% guaranteed that this will work out..

...A Prayer for Marie Antoinette H. Yco, on her 1st death Anniversary (March 11,1986-Nov. 26,2008) ....

On the 26th of November 2009, We remember with thanksgiving and sorrow our beloved MARIE ANTOINETTE H. YCO ...it's her first death anniversary....i'm invitiing all of her friends, colleagues, our relatives and those who were close to her to say a prayer....if you guys have time on thursday, we will be having a mass/ prayer for Toni at 10am in our house...you may pm me for details.....and we will be very thankful for any effort you can extend for our dear Toni...a prayer will do...but your presence is better..... 'He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more present than the living man.' ~ Antoine de Saint-Exupéry As they say, death is God's last and greatest gift to the living.....The day which we fear as our last is but the birthday of eternity....Is death the last sleep? No - it is the last and final awakening...Let us all understand that death is not an eraser. It does not remove the deeds or the meanings that existed in anyone's life. It does not make poor men rich or great men fallible. And when death comes, let us not romanticize its presence nor the person it takes from us. Let us see death for what it really is: a border that we all must cross; a border that, more than any other, defines the lives we are able to lead. Do not mourn for those who cross over. Rather, reflect on the definition they've left behind. It is the only truth we are able to know here on earth. When the definition is great, then celebrate it. When it is lacking, then learn from it and improve on it. And use it to make your own definition more truthful and loving and miraculous.


I would like to share this poem about reminiscin'....

Remembrance

Remembrance is a golden chain Death tries to break, but all in vain. To have, to love, and then to part Is the greatest sorrow of one's heart. The years may wipe out many things But some they wipe out never. Like memories of those happy times When we were all together. ~ (Author unknown)


...I miss my sister...but i know she's in heaven now and with our Almighty God... May you rest in peace sis! We love you so much.... Till we meet again....

ToXic???? iS iT LoVe ReaLLy?

For all you people who say 'I love you' when you have no clue what love is exactly!!! Something to ponder upon..... *Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest?? -It isn't love, it's LIKE. *You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?? -It isn't love, it's LUST. *Are you proud, and eager to show them off?? -It isn't love, it's LUCK. Do you want them because you know they're there?? -It isn't love, it's LONELINESS. Are you there because it's what everyone wants?? -It isn't love, it's LOYALTY. Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?? -It isn't love, it's LOW CONFIDENCE. Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them?? -It isn't love, it's PITY. Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?? -It isn't love, it's INFATUATION. Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?? -It isn't love, it's FRIENDSHIP. Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?? -It isn't love, it's a LIE. Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake?? -It isn't love, it's CHARITY. Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?? -Then it's LOVE. Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?? -Then it's LOVE. Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?? -Then it's LOVE. Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there?? -Then it's LOVE. Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?? -Then it's LOVE. Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?? -Then it's LOVE. Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?? -Then it's LOVE. Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love? Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this agony? Why is it all we long for? This torture, this powerful death of self? Why? The answer is so simple cause it's...LOVE. It is such an addictive thing that even people who are not having it wish to experience it and share it with others as well.

ReASoN, a SeaSon or A LiFeTiMe???!!!

To teach is to touch for a lifetime.... Are you a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime? Pay attention to what you read. Because people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. When someone is in your life for a REASON. It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered, and now it is time to move on. When people come into your life for a SEASON it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relation-ships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life. Work like you don't need the money, Love like you've never been hurt, And dance like no one is watching (and I know you do). "To Whom Much is Given, Much is Required"

Am i good Driver of my Life?

We are faced w/ hundreds of choices everyday and the choices we make today will determine what kind of future we will have.
I always question myself, why wouldn't i decide for myself? I seem to be a prisoner all my Life. I couldn't make the choices for myself. It's always parent's decision. Correction, my mothers'. Fine, oblige….it's my duty…... yet, for now. It's really frustrating and disappointin that I am choosing a way that seems easier but is ultimately more painful…. We don't have a clue how our choices will affect others and might come out of the decisions we make. Whether w/c factor u must or should choose or love just bcoz ur parent told you not to continue loving her…. Obey or oblige? Well, these have the same meaning ....I really don't have a choice…... and i am so sorry...sorry for myself and apologize for the people affected. It's sucks! but in the future i will have a u-turn for it....and prove that i'm a good driver of my own life than my passengers...
It's all about choices!

WELCOME TO MY LIFE (Simple Plan)

SIMPLE PLAN LYRICS

Welcome To My Life


Do you ever feel like breaking down?
Do you ever feel out of place?
Like somehow you just don't belong
And no one understands you
Do you ever wanna runaway?
Do you lock yourself in your room?
With the radio on turned up so loud
That no one hears you screaming

No you don't know what it's like
When nothing feels all right
You don't know what it's like
To be like me

To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked when you're down
To feel like you've been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one's there to save you
No you don't know what it's like
Welcome to my life

Do you wanna be somebody else?
Are you sick of feeling so left out?
Are you desperate to find something more?
Before your life is over
Are you stuck inside a world you hate?
Are you sick of everyone around?
With their big fake smiles and stupid lies
While deep inside you're bleeding

No you don't know what it's like
When nothing feels all right
You don't know what it's like
To be like me

To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked when you're down
To feel like you've been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one's there to save you
No you don't know what it's like
Welcome to my life

No one ever lied straight to your face
No one ever stabbed you in the back
You might think I'm happy but I'm not gonna be okay
Everybody always gave you what you wanted
Never had to work it was always there
You don't know what it's like, what it's like

To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked when you're down
To feel like you've been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one's there to save you
No you don't know what it's like (what it's like)

To be hurt
To feel lost
To be left out in the dark
To be kicked when you're down
To feel like you've been pushed around
To be on the edge of breaking down
And no one's there to save you
No you don't know what it's like
Welcome to my life
Welcome to my life
Welcome to my life

"Every Little Thing"

Let me in
to see you in the morning light
to get me on and all along the tears they come
see all come
I want you to believe in life
but I get the strangest feeling that you've gone away
will you find out who you are too late to change?
I wish I could be
every little thing you wanted
all the time
I wish I could be
every little thing you wanted
all the time
some times

lift me up
just lift me up don't make a sound
and let me hold you up before you hit the Ground
see all come
you say your all right
but I get the strangest feeling
that you've gone away- you've gone away
and will you find out who you are too late to change?

I wish I could be
every little thing you wanted
all the time
I wish I could be
every little thing you wanted
all the time
some times

Don't give me up
don't give me up tonight
or soon nothing will be right at all
salvation
will you find out who you are too late to change?

I wish I could be
every little thing you wanted